tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post5583606985230652164..comments2023-09-06T04:53:48.826-04:00Comments on Funky Fresh Fraziers: 10 months oldAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08472772316134482758noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-28035838904432840862011-03-23T23:34:45.691-04:002011-03-23T23:34:45.691-04:00Amen on the judging other moms. Everyone is doing ...Amen on the judging other moms. Everyone is doing what they feel is best for their baby and their family. We have no idea the circumstances others are going through and just have to realize they are doing what works best for them.Rachel Murrayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00767117079719580220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-53689476592006480002011-03-23T13:19:05.951-04:002011-03-23T13:19:05.951-04:00Hi Hilary!
I LOVE this post! If it makes you fee...Hi Hilary!<br /><br />I LOVE this post! If it makes you feel better, Aiden is SO not a cuddler either (unless he's hurt) but he'll randomly come up to me, kiss me on the cheek and say "I love you mommy" ... so cuddly or not, boys seem to love thier moms!<br /><br />Thank you so much for the last part of your post. I don't know if I was such a young mom or what but I never really passed many judgements on other peoples parenting but I was constantly the "butt end" of peoples judgements! I remember in the hospital after I had Aiden he would NOT latch on for anything and the lactation specialist basically told me it was my fault that he wasn't getting it because EVERY child has the ability to breastfeed. I was DEVESTATED! I also had to go right back to work after he was born due to my life circumstances and really haven't had much of a choice to stop. I hear all the time about the apparent damage daycare does to children. I don't know where these people sent their kids, because Aiden blows me away with all the things he learns at daycare, that I NEVER would have thought about teaching him (I guess when you do your research and get someone with 23+ years experience, they just might teach you something about parenting!) and my house is NEVER clean! I'd rather spend what little time I do have at home hanging out with my son and husband. :) selfish and gross...I know I know haha I really appreciate you pointing those few things out, because those have always been points of judgement I've experienced in my life! The whole point of being a mother is to teach your children and support others around you. It doesn't give you a right to "one up" the moms around you. We can all learn something from every mother around us! I learn stuff all the time from other moms and I appreciate them for being examples to me. In fact, I now get the opportunity to be a stay at home mom when my little Asher gets here...talk about scary! I'll probably be asking for all sorts of advice! :)<br /><br />Thanks again Hilary! You made me feel better about me!<br /><br />HeatherRy and Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06817169358357539760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-30244933805780505022011-03-23T11:41:05.602-04:002011-03-23T11:41:05.602-04:00Congrats on 10 months! Your message is so positiv...Congrats on 10 months! Your message is so positive and exactly what every mother needs to hear. Do your best and love your little ones. What else can we do?Lindshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07134690096376482151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-84537163563080474482011-03-19T23:09:30.611-04:002011-03-19T23:09:30.611-04:0010 months old?!? I can't believe that. He is t...10 months old?!? I can't believe that. He is the cutest little boy ever.<br /><br />So many things you said about Finn remind me of how Macie was/is. She was NOT cuddly. Like, at all. I used to envy moms that had babies that would snuggle up to them. But just in the last couple of months she has become more cuddly, especially when she is tired. So many that will happen with Finn, too. <br /><br />And the whole judging thing...yeah, I've totally had to eat my words about a million times since becoming a parent. I used to see things people would do and say, "I will NEVER do that when I have kids!" Ha...famous last words. :)The Kynastonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09128048823261811514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-79280533566320208502011-03-19T17:49:10.132-04:002011-03-19T17:49:10.132-04:00I think about some of the things I said to people ...I think about some of the things I said to people before I had Charlotte. I didn't MEAN to be judgmental, but I cringe when I think about them now. Experience sure does teach you a lot of things.Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04576716257914307725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-52361996667428866842011-03-19T02:49:19.940-04:002011-03-19T02:49:19.940-04:00So true. Not everyone has the same life experience...So true. Not everyone has the same life experiences and we all do different junk. We're all in the same boat and should be cheering each other on! But i think you said it best :) You should bring Finn over and him and Max could scoot around together. might be fun.The Hendrickshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02428253081370898353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-8426966610514923692011-03-18T18:54:55.443-04:002011-03-18T18:54:55.443-04:00Amen to the breastfeeding thing. I am in your boa...Amen to the breastfeeding thing. I am in your boat 100 percent. I couldn't breastfeed Lincoln and we still have a great relationship :) Luckily it worked second time around for me. 10 months has flown by. You are a really cute mommy and Finn is pretty dang cute too!!!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07862187308444407510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-85995176120218684512011-03-18T17:09:56.773-04:002011-03-18T17:09:56.773-04:00He is so dang cute!! Amen to everything you said a...He is so dang cute!! Amen to everything you said about judging other moms. I'm HUGE on that. P.S. Next time your in utah county you should call us, we would love to go on a little hike with you guys!Dan+Allihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01644732578728826566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-73745448939603488272011-03-18T16:58:53.547-04:002011-03-18T16:58:53.547-04:00Dear Hilary and Dennen, I would like to congratula...Dear Hilary and Dennen, I would like to congratulate for the great message! I was also a Late preterm, and my Mom didn't have breastmilk, so I used for differents womens and Ihad feeding problems, but They gave me every night a ruge milk baby bottle and lot's of love.<br />Finn is adorable, good boy! I love him. He's so cute and smart!<br />Love alwaysss...Kssssss...CMRA LILIAN CORNEThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04086273069120305464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8496142199653745632.post-40667901626818684522011-03-18T14:37:01.718-04:002011-03-18T14:37:01.718-04:00Our Dylan was born at 36W 4D because he stopped gr...Our Dylan was born at 36W 4D because he stopped growing and he's had some struggles since as well. I didn't have problems with my milk but had to stop for other medical reasons. He's allergic to milk, and since his whole system was immature, it's rough finding something that works. Now that he's eating solids, we're having some issues too. At least we know that they will grow out of it eventually, right? He's definitely is darling!!!mer and melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03681973549858283291noreply@blogger.com